Gay ass hole

Looking after your assets: everything you need to recognize about maintaining a happy, healthy ass

By Emen8, updated 11 months ago in Sex and virtual dating / Sex

Anal sex. It’s probably not a deeply explored topic in the standard birds-and-bees chat.

But just like the rest of your sexy bits, your anus offers a whole wonderful society to explore, and the mechanics are just the start. Bottoming can be one of the most intense, intimate, vulnerable and mind-blowing things you can do with another guy. Or it can be average, uncomfortable, embarrassing and very unsatisfying.

The difference can be as simple as arming yourself with the right information — and, as always, we’ve got your back(side). Read on for the boiling take on maintaining a happy, sound ass, and how to use it for the top sex of your life.

1. Get to know the basic anatomy

As you can see from the handy diagram, this area involves several special muscles and sphincters. It sits right behind your prostate and the rest of your sex anatomy, which is why it feels so wonderful when your buddy is inside you. It’s also lined internally with mucosa (a moist, protective membrane) and is very rich in blood vessels

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[GaySexFilter] Help me overcome being disgusted by buttholes. If I don't get over it soon, it's going to be a major problem for me in relationships.


I'm a 25 year old male and trust me, I'm gay. No need to post responses enjoy, "Are you sure you're gay?" I love men and men's bodies. I just can't sound to get over being totally grossed out by buttholes. I should tell you that I am a virgin, so I've never actually touched, licked, or sniffed one. But I've seen some porn and can't position to watch the parts where they "rim." I can monitor the actual sex, but I don't like looking at the hole. I just concentrate on other parts of the anatomy instead. If I were unbent, this wouldn't even be an issue. But since I'm queer , I realize that most sex acts that gay men fond of to engage in require utilize of the brown hole.
The hairiness is kinda gross, but I think the slight brown skin color is offensive . I also have a difficulty with the fact that shit comes out of the butthole and it can't be entirely sanitary. Maybe you can wash it with

For anyone who does not know, the label “Bottom,” refers to a bloke who participates in passive anal sex.  A “Top” is the active participant.  There are many men who take to bottoming like a duck to water, never have and issue or injury and would not understand what all the fuss is about.  On the other hand, there are many men who are drawn to experience of bottoming who cannot achieve their goals quiet so easily.

There are two main issues connected to bottoming.  Firstly, how do I arrange for anal sex?  Secondly, how do I hold clean down there so I won’t soil myself and my partner. Both are very valid concerns and discussed a lot in the community.

The general rule of thumb when preparing to bottom is to start small and work up in a consistent and graded way.  Any unnecessary muscle tension in and around your pelvis is unhelpful.  Produce sure you are relaxed and almost in a meditative relaxed state before starting to physically dilate your anal canal.  Hold your breathing deep and slow and relax your abdominals.

Two very effective methods of anal dilation are the Self Massage Method and the Dilator Plug Method

The Self Massage Method was the subject of a recent study a

in anal sex, this is the deeper part of the rectum where the colon begins. There is a muscle there that fancy the rectum has to 'open up' and for men who are endowed enough to extend it, feels prefer hitting 'the second hole' inside the first one.

A designation often used by gay men

Let me open up that second hole with this nine.

That nigga with the great dick got all up in the second hole!

by BlkChicago79 April 21, 2006

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Invented by Thomas Jefferson in 1796, the Second Butt Hole is an additional anus created in order to alternate pooping. While maximizing efficiency, the Second Butt Hole also provides relief to the primary butt hole, so that you don't obtain sore from all that pooping.

The Second Butt Hole is most famous from its appearance in the film Epic. Ben Stiller has also reported entity an avid fan of the Second Butt Hole.

"Man I was so wasted last night, I was shitting all morning. Thank God I have the Second Butt Hole"

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