Gay bottoms
Celebrate every step with flair in our eclectic Bottoms collection crafted for the queer person who’s as versatile as they is fabulous.
Joggers that pair with your strut, leggings that wrap around your adventurous spirit—each piece is a vibrant protest of pride on the runway of everyday life. Whether you’re owning the dance floor or the treadmill, our joggers and leggings are your allies, moving with you in a symphony of style and comfort. They're not just attire; they're your statement pieces, your battle armor in the daily parade of experience, reflecting every shade of the rainbow.
Our collection is a sartorial tribute to the brave, the bold, and the beautiful. Shorts that flirt with the breeze, skirts that twirl with your every move, pants that speak volumes without saying a word, and overalls that are the epitome of playful chic—each piece is a stroke of genius on the canvas of your body. Dress to impress yourself first, and let the world catch up, if they can. From the understated elegance of our pants to the joyous rebellion of our skirts, this range is for the dreamers, the believers, the arrogant parade of trendsetters who live out loud and treasure out proud.
A lot of people think that homosexuality is a simple matter of genetics—if you have the so-called “gay gene,” well, you know the rest. In other words, gays and lesbians are just “born that way” and that’s that.
While this explanation is intuitively appealing, the reality is that things are far more complex. Increasingly, scientific research suggests there are multiple factors that might contribute to homosexual orientation—and they’re very different from one person to the next. The end result of all this variability is that different “kinds” or “types” of homosexuality probably exist. In other words, entity gay isn’t just one thing, and not everyone who is gay is gay for the same reasons.
A fascinating new examine supporting this idea was recently published in the journal PLoS ONE. This study focused specifically on exploring the potential origins of male homosexuality, but did so in a way that was very different from almost all previous studies on this topic. Whereas most explore in this area has treated gay men as a homogeneous group, the researchers leading this study instead looked at subgroups of gay men w
What Bottoms Want: A Guide For Good Topping
6. Condom Negotiation
Before having sex, it’s top to have a conversation about condoms, where everybody is on the similar page and doesn’t feel pressured into anything they don’t want to execute, for fear of not having sex (any bottoms out there reading this? If a uppermost says they won’t sleep with you because you wish them to wear a condom – that’s a red flag! Walk away, hon!). Allowing people to choose the prevention method that works best for them means that everyone can perceive comfortable and empowered during their sexual experiences.
FYI, tops – it is sexual assault to ‘stealth’ someone during sex. ‘Stealthing’ is where the condom is intentionally broken or removed during sex, without the bottom’s consent. This is totally not okay to do, even if you own seen it done in porn. The bottom line is that ‘stealthing’ causes harm and The Spinoff said it best in this article “It’s not ‘stealthing’ – it’s rape.”.
PrEP is an amazing way to prevent HIV, and we love to see the increasing amount of lgbtq+ and bi guys using PrEP in Aotearoa. Some people think that only bottoms can find PrEP, but it’s better for everybo
Ever wanted to know the secrets to becoming a power bottom? Want to know how to watch after the bottoms in your life? Curious to give bottoming a strive but not sure how to begin?
We can aid you become a surpass bottom! Here are some quick bottoming tips and tricks from ACON’s peer-workshop Booty Basics.
1. Lube
The arse does not produce its own lubrication.
This means that lube is really, really important for any anal play. First, to cease damage to the internal lining of your arse. Second, to make bottoming (and topping!) more pleasurable. And third, to aid protect it from infections.
Remember to use water or silicon-based lubes, as oil-based lubes can damage condoms.
2. You
The second principle is YOU. This is the one that covers off all the mental and emotional aspects such as making sure you touch safe, making sure there is consent, that you feel comfortable, that you know your own bottoming limits and desires.
Remember, sex is best for everyone if all the people involved are motivated by trying to maximise everyone’s pleasure safely. You can’t be a good girlfriend and you can’t exposure pleasure for yourself if you’re stressed or uncomfortable (bottom or not!).